I'm facing a tough decision, I'm about to get married and move in with my girl friend, and I have a collection of porn and falaka videos that I do not want to part with because I have worked hard and spent some money on them. what shall I do? shall I get rid of them or keep them?

Has anyone ever faced a similar situation?

save them on a flash memory and delete them on your pc

TWO flash memories, at least (you want a backup)!
And of course encrypt them.

Or buy a a couple of hard drives, copy it all to both and encrypt... last thing you need is to waste years of hoarding... or you could always let her "accidentally" find them and see what happens?

fuck it's a really tough decision. the thing is I introduced her to falaka and she didn't mind receiving it. but still I don't want to loose my loot!

does that mean she knows about your "kinks"? since you told her, i don't see why you have to get rid of it. just keep them on a separate drive. no need to throw it all out.

yes she is fully aware of my kinks, I just don't know how would she react if she finds the videos! and quite honestly I don't want to lie to her or hide anything from her.

So dont hide them. tell her "hey, you know i have this and that kink?"... she says yes, then tell her "well, i have porn of this and that kink"... best case scenario she will laugh it off, and be ok with it. it is a kink, which means it is sexual (i assume you mentioned that). and if it is sexual, rule 34 of the internet states that "there will be porn of it"....


in any case, you are worrying too much. and honesty is always the best policy, so be honest. and if you feel too embarrassed about the fact, just put them on a separate drive. Unless she is a computer guru, it will be very unlikely that she will check the drive, un encrypt it, and see its content. even if you had those things on your own pc/laptop, in a hidden folder.

good luck!

well, I followed your advice, things went quite alright actually she took really kindly to it, she actually laughed it off, lol. thanks a lot mate.

honesty is best... still some hardcore should be kept out... of everyone elses eyes....

If in this situation, I think it is best to permanently delete all. Try to slow down and delete regardless of situation also!

There is no way to change your biology just tell her the truth